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Monday, November 28, 2011

Why do people say mean things? I mean, really why?

Hands over my head…

Thinking…

Thinking..

what more...

JELOUSLY, GREEDYNESS, HATRED, HUMILIATED

Are you dealing with any of these feelings and emotions simply because someone is talking mean things about you or people around you?

Some actions and recent events have literally strained me to write the following.

People say things.. mean things..Espically when we are so KIND to them. What do they expect you to do in return after they say those mean things? Do they even think about people's feelings getting HURT!

What do they want you to do in return?
Cry.. Lower your self esteem..

SOME PEOPLE actually say hurtful things write on your face, wreck and trash your mind..

Snorty Comments,Comment on their choices, their decisions, their thoughts.. WHY JUDGE..?

Everyone has there own choice to make.


why do you want other people's business..? I mean don’t you have any other thing to attend.? JUST GO LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR and SEE IF YOUR PERFECT.

There are two things. There s one thing called GOSSIP.. There s one thing called ENVY, Loathing, Jealous..

I think they only have one GOAL - They don’t leave you happy and they don’t wanna see good things happen to you. Taking PLEASURE in other’s sorrows is what they are. Mission Accomplished!


Celebrating other peoples pain & misfortune will only bring bad things your way. Maybe don't be too quick to judge & tear others apart –BM


"Don't worry about what people say behind your back, they are the people who are finding faults in your life instead of fixing the faults in their own life"!

We are still human. Till what extent can we overlook or let it go..? HOW do you deal with this annoying persons?


Your thoughts …???? Much needed…



Live and let LIVE!!

XoXo

Meru

5 Comment :) :):

Aashi said... [Reply]

hmmm... i wonder who hurt u... n ur delicate heart...:s hope its not me...

and the very next question in mind is who else can it be????:p

well, if u know what you are and believe that ur right, then u shud least bother about wat ppl say... know its difficult but thats the best way to get rid of such people...:)

meRuu @ Meru's world said... [Reply]

Aashi i cant take names..I mean to say people are generally hurtful.

And definitely not you.. U ARE MY SWEET sis you know that already.. :)

n thank you so much for your advice.. u are absolutely right . i'll keep that in mind next time i had 2 gothrou that.. HAHa.. XoXoXo..

sk said... [Reply]

People hurt you, .. Allah will heal you.
People humiliate you,... Allah will magnify you.
People judge you, ...Allah will justify you.
Allah will never give you something you can't handle.
So be close to Allah and never.....
Let your faith be weak in any hard circumstances.
Instead hold firm and say
~Alhamdulillah~
Because... He is always close.......

meRuu @ Meru's world said... [Reply]

@sk.. thank s so much yaar..
IT's really calming to read that.... THANK YOU..:)
JHAZAAK Allahukhair..

Anonymous said... [Reply]

Hii !! Just read this..Well i did suffer at the hands of these kind of ppl!! And i totally lost life, just sad n more sad everyday.. But then i was like why should i allow dem to control my life, Its my life & i own it !! Before i was a easy going person, like forgiving everytime, now i answer to if something wrong is done without reason.. This has made me much happier than before.. :)