Why do people say mean things? I mean, really why?

Hands over my head…

Thinking…

Thinking..

what more...

JELOUSLY, GREEDYNESS, HATRED, HUMILIATED

Are you dealing with any of these feelings and emotions simply because someone is talking mean things about you or people around you?

Some actions and recent events have literally strained me to write the following.

People say things.. mean things..Espically when we are so KIND to them. What do they expect you to do in return after they say those mean things? Do they even think about people's feelings getting HURT!

What do they want you to do in return?
Cry.. Lower your self esteem..

SOME PEOPLE actually say hurtful things write on your face, wreck and trash your mind..

Snorty Comments,Comment on their choices, their decisions, their thoughts.. WHY JUDGE..?

Everyone has there own choice to make.

why do you want other people's business..? I mean don’t you have any other thing to attend.? JUST GO LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR and SEE IF YOUR PERFECT.

There are two things. There s one thing called GOSSIP.. There s one thing called ENVY, Loathing, Jealous..

I think they only have one GOAL - They don’t leave you happy and they don’t wanna see good things happen to you. Taking PLEASURE in other’s sorrows is what they are. Mission Accomplished!

Celebrating other peoples pain & misfortune will only bring bad things your way. Maybe don't be too quick to judge & tear others apart –BM

"Don't worry about what people say behind your back, they are the people who are finding faults in your life instead of fixing the faults in their own life"!

We are still human. Till what extent can we overlook or let it go..? HOW do you deal with this annoying persons?

Your thoughts …???? Much needed…

Live and let LIVE!!

XoXo

Meru

What I'M Loving Wednesday

Hello my lovely and honest readers! :)
Here's my "What I'm Loving Wednesday."
Check out more WILW's at This Kind of Love!

{1} I'm loving… this sweet and cozy bedroom!!

{2} I'm loving… that November is almost gone n december is coming.. .. J

{3} I'm loving… that my BFF’s cute lil daughter cant seem to forget me these days. And when her mother takes her to school she insists on skipping school n coming over to “Aunt M’s” place… Haha. J

{4} I'm loving… that the twilight saga breaking dawn part 1 is out in theatres!! (Yay! for a crazy Vampire lover!)

{5} I'm loving… am loving these Pins on PINTEREST

How cool is this sweater

Source: oliviapalermofashion.blogspot.com via Christine on Pinterest

i second that.. :)

Source: emtc.tumblr.com via Christine on Pinterest

MINI APPLE PIES!! YUM!

Source: littlebitfunky.com via Meraj on Pinterest

XoXo

Meru

My vegetarian week…. #7 - Check

I am so lacking behind my 101 list of goals. ( if u haven’t read my 101 goals already then click here) Though I’ave completed a few of them, I was putting it off to POST about that. J

Today I get to mark off the first thing in my 101 goals in 1001 days list.

#7 – Go vegetarian for a week!

Going vegan! Going off meat..

How hard can it be…?? Let me tell you it wasn’t so easy! But I finally managed to do it.. so cheers to that.!! J

I was never on a vegetarian diet before nor I am a 100% non-vegetarian. I eat very few and specific veggies!!

This was a healthy thing to do. The only thing is living in a house where my family isn’t vegetarian, I don’t know how I did it. I was running out of options to eat…. Hahaha.. J

Its gonna make the process a bit easy, just avoid the smell of the MEAT, it makes you really want to eat it…. Haha J

I felt really good going vegetarian for healthy reasons.

I feel like doing it every month for a week now. But donno if that is gonna happen.. J J

If you want to go vegan then remember to eat GREENS, NUTS, RICE and FRUITS too…( u wanna get adequate nutrients) J

And also remember you can still eat cheese, chocolates, chips and Ice cream right…?? ..? J

Healthy eating!! Love ya…

XoXo

Meru

Fill in the _ _ _ _ _ friday

1. A nervous habit I have is I tend to shiver a bit! Hands and feet get numb !! I hate that feeling.. though it only lasts for a little while.. am trying to overcome this, much better now .

2. Something that makes me sad is people who care less for the care of environment and nature .

3. Today I am thankful for a special someone for getting me something I like J .

4. My favorite room in my house is hands down my bedroom. It's everything!!! .

5. I can't stand insensitive, emotionless and selfish people, who cant see anyone happy .

6. If I had an extra $100 to spend on whatever I wanted today I would go buy myself a present. These days nobody gifts me anything, so will go buy something cool, like some awesome SHOES and a Dress!! J

7. The last person I hung out with was my lil brother. We went to this BIG Mall. He drove me on bike! This lil guy drives so fast like Crazy! I was freaking out!!!! Dude u need to slow down!! .

XoXo

Meru

it's OK Thursday

{linking up with Amber and Neely}

It's OK

..to getup early in the morning

..to bang ur head against the door by accident.. it hurts.. :( ..

..to have eaten pastries and cookies after staying up late

..to sometimes take time off from blogging (so many pending drafts in my blog.. gotta finish them all)

..to think am the only person who reads my posts... ( hope am wrong!! Comment Peeps!!!..! Plz)

..to think it would be COOL if i had lots of followers!!

..to not enjoy SHOPPING lately!!

..to care less about my bedroom being a lil messy. But Yes! I definitely am a CLEAN FREAK. I cant abide books off shelf's, cloths out of place, etc.. thank God! not an OCD.. haha..

...to be crazy for wanting to have everything in PINK currently... haha

..to have made a big big blunder by baking something.. a real waste of ingredients, time and energy!

..to have had a hard time coming up with the "its OKs"

What are your it's OKs for this week...???

Much LOVE!!

XoXo

Meru

ghostly feeling... !

Wow!! I really had a scary ghost feel when the following thing happened 2days back.

Me and my cousin were sitting in her bedroom and were talking. Then suddenly from nowhere I saw something creeping into her bedroom window. So I signalled my cousin towards the window. We both had a sudden shock. Our heart beats just skipped for a few seconds. When we saw it clearly we were “FREAKED out” cause we saw something that looked like a creepy scary face. A Ghost face?..?

A kid - who looked exactly like the kid from the movie “GRUDGE”, same age kid, same round face looking so angrily... like a replica...Scary!!...

It was some kid (from her floor) peeking into the room from that window… hahaha… J J When we realised wat was that we busted out laughing.. J HAha..

Well!! To be honest I wasn’t that scared wen I saw that, but my cousin was. I just had so much fun seeing my cousin suddenly frightened….. haha! After what happened, my cousin is scared to sleep in that room, constantly recalling “scary creepy face” all the time. hahaha… she also had to roll-down the blinds of her window … J J It was really a memorable day.

Really I LOVE me some haunted stuff. I plead for more n more scary things.. ( I hope the ghosts aren’t hearing this.. J)

scary- movie- experience

sitting in the my bedroom, typing this blog….

XoXo

Meru

fill in the blank friday.. ! 4th nov

Blanks via

1. My favorite thing about this week was/is hanging out with my BFF .

2. Colder weather makes me happy and gloomy both. Yes! I love the clothing too. Sweaters n cardigans are my best friends .

3. Three things that make me terribly happy as of late are sleeping in my new comfy-cosy quilt, baking some treats, the sound of the rains J .

4. If I could only wear one kind of shoe for the rest of my life, I'd choose BOOTS.. be it any kind.. Am a crazy boots LADY! If I could I would wear them everyday. I gotta get one soon!!! . (if anyone’s planning on gifting me one day then I wouldn’t mind having a 100 of em.... J )

5. My personality type is well, the online test says am moderately expressed introvert and sensing personality. But I think am optimistic and full of good cheer and sometimes subtle and quite too..

6. I have a serious problem resisting brownies and Pies! Yum!

7. My favorite color to wear is pink. I am a pink girl! I love everything PINK.…… .

XoXo

Meru